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Sex and Love
Addiction: 37 Questions for
Self Diagnosis: -3
25 Do you feel
uncomfortable about your masturbation because of the
frequency with
which you masturbate, the fantasies you engage in,
the props you use,
and/or the places in which you do it?
26 Do you engage in the
practice of voyeurism, exhibitionism, etc.
in ways that bring discomfort
and pain?
27 Do you find yourself
needing greater and greater variety and energy
in your sexual or
romantic activities just to achieve an "acceptable"
level of physical
and emotional relief?
28 Do you need to have
sex, or "fall in love" in order to feel like a
"real man" or a "real
woman"?
29 Do you feel that your
sexual and romantic behavior is about as
rewarding as hijacking a
revolving door?
30 Are you unable to
concentrate on other areas of your life because
of thoughts or feelings
you are having about another person or
about sex?
31 Do you find yourself
obsessing about a specific person or sexual
act even though these
thoughts bring pain, craving or discomfort?
32 Have you ever wished
you could stop or control your sexual and
romantic activities for a
given period of time?
33 Do you find the pain
in your life increasing no matter what you do?
34 Do you feel that you
lack dignity and wholeness?
35 Do you feel that your
sexual and/or romantic life affects your
spiritual life in a negative
way?
36 Do you feel that your
life is unmanageable because of your
excessive dependency needs?
37 Have you ever thought
that there might be more you could do with
your life if you were not so
driven by sexual and romantic pursuits?
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