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The following questions are designed to be used as guidelines to identifying possible signposts of sex and love addiction. They are not intended to provide a sure-fire method of diagnosis, nor can negative answers to these questions provide absolute assurance that the illness is not present. Many sex and love addicts have varying patterns which can result in very different ways of approaching and answering these questions. Despite this fact, we have found that short, to-the-point questions have often provided as effective a tool for self-diagnosis as have lengthy explanations of what sex and love addiction is. We appreciate that the diagnosis of sex and love addiction is a matter that needs to be both very serious and very private. We hope that these questions will prove helpful. excerpted © 1985 S.L.A.A.

  1. Have you ever tried to control how much sex to have or how often you would see someone? Do you find yourself unable to stop seeing a specific person even though you know that seeing this person is destructive to you?
  2. Do you feel that you don't want anyone to know about your sexual or romantic activities? Do you get "high" from sex and/or romance?
  3. Have you had sex at inappropriate times, in inappropriate places, and/or with inappropriate people?
  4. Do you make promises to yourself concerning your sexual or romantic behavior that you find you cannot follow?
  5. Have you had or do you have sex with someone you don't (didn't) want to have sex with? Do you believe that sex and/or a relationship will make your life bearable?
  6. Have you ever felt that you had to have sex?

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